How can I make this work for me instead of against me?

EVERY SINGLE MORNING that I wake up, I ask myself "How can I make this work for me instead of against me? I WILL NOT be a victim of my circumstances - I'll ACCEPT them, DEAL with them, and RISE above them" .. Learn to stop pitying yourself just because you "feel" or "think" you cannot bear anymore... YOU CAN and YOU WILL...& in the end, you will realize you are stronger than what you thought you knew before.